BEHIND EVERY CORRUPTED MAN THERE IS A CORRUPTED WOMAN

As there is a woman behind every successful man, there is a corrupted woman behind every corrupted man.  But that woman does not necessarily to be wife, she may be mother or daughter or some other female whom that man likes. Here I am not referring those unfortunate women whose son/husband/father is a rogue and gender insensitive, I am referring women from those families, whose son/husband/father is good at family and gender sensitive, knows art of living, art of looting the country and fellow human beings while knowing the art of sharing the looted sum with family members.

If accepting bribe only is considered as corruption, then we need not discuss much, a Lokpall Bill or something is else may be sufficient enough to curb the corruption, but it is the entire society in nature is corrupted by minds and souls. When Auto driver to Vegetable vendor to Shop keeper to Petrol bunk owner to Theatre owner to Doctor to Lawyer to Contractor to Journalist and whom not, everyone involved corruption in one or the other manner or involved in cheating fellow individual and nation in one or the other way, we should not consider taking bribe only as corruption and should not target only bureaucrats, political people and industrial houses, whose number is relatively very less. I feel using office phone for personal purpose or stealing things (Stationary, Software, Documents and etc) from office must also be considered as unethical practice, which most of the individuals do. In that sense, from Auxiliary Nurse to Anganwadi Teacher to Office sub staff to IAS Officer to Ward member to Member of Legislative Assembly/Parliament to State/Central Minister to Common public, everyone are corrupted.

It is men who are corrupted in general, because it is men who are more into employment or involved in earning means of living for their families. Though women are also have been into employment for long, their number is relatively less and it is more men who are into helm of affairs, whether it is politics or something else. But in most of the cases, a women will be there behind every corrupted, however she relates to him.

Some may argue that, if so, women should be behind every crime and made responsible for the same, but women supports only corruption, but not any crime, because with corruption they get money, jeweler, houses rather bungalows, cars and moreover respect and admiration from the corrupted society, friends, neighbors and relatives. If a person a kills someone, except a dead body of the killed, what his wife gets? so they don't encourage any other crime but corruption.

It is mother, because if she says no or infuses character, majority of the times one will not involve in corruption. I feel behind every Chatrapathi Shivaji there is a Rajmata Jijabai, his mother, who infused character and valor in him. It does not mean that behind every Kasab there may be one mother like him, because killing someone doesn’t fetch anything but imprisonment. But corruption fetches money, respect from the society, huge dowry and what not?

It is wife, because she occupies majority of the man’s productive life time. If she says no or refuses or ignores the corrupted sum, majority of the men or at least 50 to 70% men stops corruption or at least think twice before taking bribe or doing something unethical. But if a man’s seat is potential for corruption and if that person is not corrupted, then he will be thrown out of the house by his wife only. Some argue that, in the middle class families, most of the times women are occupied by house hold chores and don’t have time to look into the her husband’s means of income and the alike. It may not be true, if so, why T.V. serials have become so popular?

It is daughter or younger one, who can differentiate between good and bad, if she says no or persuades her father not to be corrupted, majority of the men stops corruption, but in general daughters don’t, because they dream of buying another big corrupted man to marry with huge sum as dowry amassed by her father.

There may be some women in any relation with corrupted, who are good at heart and tries to convey that they don’t want corrupted sum. But interestingly corrupted gets relatively beautiful girl as wife as they are most sought for by beautiful bride’s parents. Because beauty has its value, which comes at price, though that price might paid through the sum made by corruption. And in marriage alliances it is wealth that has more weight-age than anything else especially character. If you are very good at heart, have social concern, character, values and civic conscious, then the best place for you will be a Math or Ashram….     

But it is also the society, friends, relatives and well wishers (??), who always encourages one to be corrupted, admires his wealth amassed through corruption, respects him while making mockery of righteous people.